For Men

Do You Think She’s Really Pregnant?

  • She needs you to be supportive and listen.
  • It’s OK to be scared. Talk about your options with each other.
  • There are resources to help both of you, here at St Catherine.
  • The decisions you make now will always be with you.
  • Don’t decide too quick…seek help before you choose.

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An unplanned pregnancy can leave you feeling like your world has been turned upside down. If you are a young man expecting a child you weren’t planning on, there are a wave of questions and emotions you are more than likely experiencing.

If you are in school, your future can be effected by pregnancy. Friends, fun and plans for the future might change. You may be thinking about your grades, what college to attend, athletics, or what you are going to do over your summer vacation. A pregnancy, though, will change all of that. You will no longer be able to just think about yourself. You now have a child and its mother to be concerned about.

A top priority for any man in this situation must be the health, emotions and well-being of your partner. She will have the same questions and fears that you do. She will need you to be there for her.

The HOPE Center offers free resources to help! In addition to offering many services, The HOPE Center’s staff is trained to answer questions and help guide you while making these tough decisions.
Here are some things to keep in mind:

Listen
She will want to talk about what she is feeling.

Remain Calm
Even if you’re scared, offer your support at all times.

Share Your Feelings
It’s OK to express your emotions – you should have input in the decisions.

Gather All The Facts
You both have options for the future.

 

There are also some things you shouldn’t do:

Don’t Take Off
If you disappear, she is going to feel abandoned and alone.

Avoid Pressuring Her
Whatever decision is made, you need to make it together.

Don’t Forget
You are an equal part of this situation.

You will feel pressure from family and friends. This is not ideal for making a decision. Try to wait until you don’t feel backed into a corner. Decisions should be made when you think you have considered all possibilities.

Call St. Catherine or pregnancy tests, confidential results and information that can help you make a decision: Call Us: 406-388-7035 or Call/Text our 24/7 Crisis Pregnancy Hotline: 406-579-8917

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